Practical Marriage Guide

When you sign into GoMarry.com you will be able to complete a practical marriage questionnaire and this will guide you through many questions which will attempt to match you with potential spouses. If you get talking and decide to meet up for a marriage meeting we strongly advise you go over the following questions. Asking these questions now means you won't have any nasty surprises in the future that could potentially cause a problem in the marriage.

And don't worry, I will provide you with a print out version and a deeper explination to each question before you go to the meeting.


  • 1. What are your reasons for getting married?
  • 2. Ideally when would you like to get married?
  • 3. Ask about: Previous Marriages and Relationships
  • 4. What Amount of Interaction is Acceptable With Past Partners?
  • 5. Do you want children? If yes, how many?
  • 6. When do you want to have children?
  • 7. Let's talk birth control.
  • 8. Talk about raising children.
  • 9. How will you be disciplining the children?
  • 10. What religion will our children follow?
  • 11. Would you feel unfulfilled if you were unable to have children?
  • 12. How would you react if you had a seriously ill or disabled child?
  • 13. Do you have any existing children?
  • 14. How we’ll manage relationship with children from a previous relationship?
  • 15. How do you spend your free time?
  • 16. Do you believe in any of the following?
  • 17. Do you have any long term goals or ambitions?
  • 18. Do you like travelling?
  • 19. Where have you travelled?
  • 20. Talk about your education?
  • 21. Are you an academic or a practical person?
  • 22. What core characteristics are important to you in a spouse? What are you looking for?
  • 23. What is unacceptable from a spouse?
  • 24. Day to Day Appearances Routine
  • 25. How Do You Want Your Spouse To Dress?
  • 26. Does popular culture have an important impact on your life?
  • 27. Talk about body weight and its meaning to you
  • 28. Do you have friends of the opposite sex?
  • 29. How much time do you want to spend with friends?
  • 30. Would it make you uncomfortable if your partner went to the following, with or without you.
  • 31. Role and responsibilities of each spouse
  • 32. Gender Conforming questions
  • 33. How will you make decisions when you are married? Small and big.
  • 34. What are grounds for a divorce?
  • 35. Do you believe in marital counseling, if your marriage was in trouble?
  • 36. Would you let your spouse stay away overnight?
  • 37. Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage?
  • 38. How would your family feel about you being in a polygamous marriage?
  • 39. What would you do if you had only 10 days to live?
  • 40. Introvert or Extrovert (Shy or Confident)?
  • 41. Do you have a sense of humor?
  • 42. What kind of sports do they like?
  • 43. Medical Conditions
  • 44. How is your mental health?
  • 45. Are there genetic diseases in your family or a history of cancer, heart disease, or chronic illness?
  • 46. Do you have any allergies?
  • 47. Do you have any phobias?
  • 48. Do you have health insurance? Dental insurance?
  • 49. Use of social media.
  • 50. What is your Favorite Season?
  • 51. Are you a Morning or Evening Person?
  • 52. Time spent on your phone for professional reasons.
  • 53. Are you an organized and clean person, or more of a careless, messy slob?
  • 54. What are your favorite TV shows and movies?
  • 55. What are your worst features?
  • 56. Can you take constructive advice from someone?
  • 57. Do you have a goal/dream?
  • 58. What is something that makes you extremely angry?
  • 59. When in an argument, do you tend to withdraw or become more aggressive?
  • 60. What are things that make you very happy?
  • 61. What makes you the most insecure?
  • 62. Do you get stressed out easily?
  • 63. What are your views on keeping pets?
  • 64. Do you enjoy inviting people over for entertainment?
  • 65. Your top 3 Peeves (Don’t Want).
  • 66. What are your greatest strengths?
  • 67. Are you open minded? Do you have any prejudice against any particular people?
  • 68. Country of Birth
  • 69. Ethnic Culture and Background
  • 70. Dietary Needs and Cuisines
  • 71. Can you cook?
  • 72. What religion do you follow?
  • 73. Which if any holidays do you believe are the most important to celebrate?
  • 74. Do you celebrate Valentine's Day?
  • 75. Are you able to admit when you are wrong?
  • 76. Are you a physically affectionate person?
  • 77. Do you have any sexually transmitted diseases?
  • 78. Do you have a medical problem that impacts your ability to have a satisfying sex life (for example, erectile dysfunction, premature 79 Do you consider yourself a sexual person?
  • 80. Do you feel comfortable initiating intimacy?
  • 81. How many nights per week would you consider having intimacy with your spouse?
  • 82. What would you do if the Intimacy dried up?
  • 83. How much time do you allow to pass before you can forgive someone?
  • 84. How do you deal with pressure? Do you know how to deal with pressure, Can you handle pressure?
  • 85. Why do you live where you do?
  • 86. If you got married soon, what kind of living arrangements have you got in mind?
  • 87. Are you willing to move close to your spouse after getting married?
  • 88. Where and what is your dream place to live in/at?
  • 89. What do you do for a living?
  • 90. Do you like what you do for a living?
  • 91. How many hours do you work?
  • 92. What is your retirement plan?
  • 93. What is your annual income?
  • 94. Are you happy with your current level of income?
  • 95. Do you have significant debts?
  • 96. Discuss the wedding ceremony?
  • 97. Do you have any savings?
  • 98. Who should handle the finances in your family?
  • 99. Do you want to combine incomes in a mutual bank account, or have individual accounts?
  • 100. Sign the pre-nup
  • 101. If you had unlimited resources, how would you live?
  • 103. Talk about substance use/abuse
  • 104. Ask About Family Background and Structure
  • 105. Relationship with family
  • 103. Are you close to your family?
  • 104. Are you or have you ever been alienated from your family?
  • 105. Do you have a difficult time setting limits with family?
  • 107. How important is it that you and your partner be on good terms with each other's families?
  • 109. How much influence do your parents still have over your decisions?
  • 106. How do you feel about living with family?
  • 107. How important is it that you and your partner be on good terms with each other’s families?
  • 108. Hidden Responsibilities
  • 109. Financial assistance to your family
  • 110. Let’s Talk Politics
  • 111. Let’s Talk Neighbours
  • 112. Let's Talk Community.
  • 113. Let's Talk Charity
  • 114. Let's discuss the Law.
  • 115. Let's talk about the News
  • 116. Do you spend time reading about, watching, or discussing actors, musicians, models, or other celebrities?
  • 117. Let's Talk cars
  • 118. What is your greatest achievement? Something that made you proud of yourself.
  • 119. How will we argue?